Prafulla Kumar Mohanty
God, after naming his created
wonders for six days made Sunday the Sabbath day for rest. For the Jews
Saturday is Sabbath. If God needs rest after working for six days, we mortals
ought to have everyday a rest day for we always feel restless in God’s
wonderful creation where from sunrise to midnight we have to work for survival.
But all workplaces, government and private corporate offices, give us Sunday
for rest. This Sunday some call Happy Sunday for they can laze over the bed
longer than in other days without rushing through morning ablutions and gulping
some breakfast while buttoning shirts, answering phone calls and go out to
catch a bus or to start the bike, car or cycle. The unlucky ones walk their
miles to places of work mumbling curses on the traffic. Housewives, at times
unbrushed and unteaed prepare breakfast and pack lunch boxes for their harried
men without any complain although some shout- get some bread when you return;
and yes don’t forget to bring my backache medicines...O’ he is beyond the gate
now... Sunday is different.
No need to rise early. The
morning cup can be sipped while reading the Times
of India. An appointment for a massage and facial can be made. A visit to a
few friends' houses and dine out programme are also a possibility. But so much
of unfinished work, postponed to Sundays every weak day beckons like a hangman
in wordless gestures. My dearest often wanted to visit the Mahakal temple with
me as she is worried over my asthma. She never says so but I know why she wants
me to visit Mahakal temple and perform a yajna. Every morning after she gets
up, and she is always an early riser, she plays on her mobile Mahamritunjaya
mantra much to my anger. But I do not express my anger ever in words. I
understand why she does that. Her faith in astrology disturbs her routines.
Even in sleep on most nights, she babbles. She spends most of her time in her
Puja room. She works hard. Cooks for our children, our son and daughter. Washes
clothes in the machine, telephones our family dhobi and gives him clothes for
ironing. Collects her puja items and serves breakfast for me, our children.
Picks up her fresh dress and enters the bathroom but comes out fresh in a trice
to see me off at the gate. Prepares the kids for the school, both are in Sai Inter-National.
The school bus starts at 8.50. She
leaves them at the stop, about 100 meters away from our gate. Locks the front
door and then sits for her breakfast. She was an athlete, a sprinter. But now
she doesn’t find time even to go for a walk. She is putting on fat which does
not burn in the household chores.
Today is Happy Sunday again. Last
night she convinced me that I accompany her to Mahakal temple, just 30 kms
away, a famous place for Shiva devotees. She has made all arrangements. The
list given by the priest has been fully procured. Last evening she had gone
with our driver Ram, to get things personally. The children too are eager to go
on a outing, if not a family picnic. She had bought new smart dresses for them,
shoes too. She is a great woman of taste. She is a good cook, a good housewife,
a good lover but always apprehensive of something happening to me. She consults
astrologers about my future. This yajna is their idea. Well, if a yajna
reassures her, so be it. I wanted her to be happy and in good cheer. She has lost
all her other interests. She used to paint. Not a mean painter. But she gave up
all those things after the children were born. Constantly she thought of their
education. Both Harish and Meena are good at studies. Both are smart and hard
working. But my wife always is worried about this and that. Her smiles are
rare, always a few lines appear on her forehead. I often ask why, why? She
smiles away in mock pleasure O’ nothing – everything will be fine. God is
there, nothing will happen. Well what are you worried about? Nothing. Life you
know; living it is worrisome.
The driver came. Here are the
flowers Madam, the 64 lilies, 128 lotuses, the incense...Ok, keep them in the
car. We’ll start by 9. The puja will start exactly at 11 A.M. Why are you not
dressed yet? Put on that dhoti and silk kurta I have kept on the bed. You’ll
look more handsome. You wanted blue silk, blue it is. Go. I went to change my
dress. The children were looking very smart in their new dress. She was clad in
a white silk saree looking like a goddess. Her long open hair was once thick,
now not so thick, yet she looked younger and elegant.
I came out from the bed room. She
looked at me with glowing eyes. She was happy to see me in my exotic
handsomeness. Well let’s move I said. She held my hands. I called the children
nearer. I held them and we moved. We crossed the threshold and I brought out
tickets for a film show. Children and my dearest- morning show, lunch at
Meridian and then a drive to Mahakal for darshan. Happy Sunday dearest - No
yajna is superior to the yajna of living together- come. She finally laughed-
Happy Sunday at last!
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